If your wife is not using AAS, she will want to stay away from the T3. T3 will tear down muscle and fat alike. You need the anabolic support from gear, anavar in her case, to limit muscle loss. If she does not have var, I would have her use clen only, starting at 20mcg ed and every 2 wks increase by 20mcg going no hgiher than 120mcg and runnning it for no longer than 12-16 wks
For you, I would run 1cc sust, 2x wk, or if you want to keep the dose low, you can do 1/2cc, 2x wk
Then for you, start clen at 40mcg ed for 2 wks, Then increase by 20mcg every 2 wks just like your wife, going no higher than 120mcg
For the t3, I would use it low. I would start low, like 1 tab. Then maybe add 1/2 tab after a few wks. Then again, add 1/2 tab a few wks after that. I would keep the dose around 50mcg ED, split into 2 doses. and when you come off, slowlly reverse off the T3, lowering dose by a small amount, every 3 days until you are off